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Should I do it?
Started by Draazen
(2014-04-11 01:49:36)
Draazen (2014-04-11 01:49:36)
Im am 18 almost 19. I have never met my Biofather. He was a HUGE druggie I was told and thats why my mom kept me away from him. He has been in jail several times. He always got tickets etc for not paying child support when I was a kid.. :/ I got in contact with him last week! He told me 'Your finally 18! You were the bane of my life when you were little. I got sick of paying child support.' I said sorry. A couple of days later He asked me if I would like to met him somewhere. I want to go and finally see him but I really dont know if I should go. I dunno if he is still on drugs....Should I go? I REALLY REALLY WANT TO GO! Just dont knw if I should. Btw,he started paying when I was 15..
Kammeh (2014-04-11 02:29:40)
If you really want to go, I suggest that you bring your mom or a friend with you, just in case he's still on drugs.
Draazen (2014-04-11 02:35:41)
Im not bringing anyone with me. :/ I can take care of myself.
Kammeh (2014-04-11 02:35:53)
Whatever you do, don't go alone. It's better to be safe than sorry!

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2014-04-11 09:36:46

Draazen (2014-04-11 02:38:59)
See previous statement.. I want to see him by myself. We are goona met at a mall. Ill be fine
TREEhugger101 (2014-04-11 02:58:59)
Bring a knife.

Screamer (2014-04-11 03:04:23)
No.
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Draazen (2014-04-11 03:18:06)
I can handle myelf people. Im 18... :/
Ron1212 (2014-04-11 03:58:21)
Meet him somewhere there's a lot of people, such as the mall. The last thing your dad would want to do is hurt you when there's more than 20 immediate witnesses.
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Draazen (2014-04-11 04:25:46)
Like what? The mall here has a metal detector doors. :/ And I wouldnt bring a knife anyway
carlos11 (2014-04-11 04:40:27)
Everyone- He's not a child, he's a grown man. Also, this is his father we're talking about. Why would he want to hurt him? Drug abusers are not necessarily belligerent psychopaths.

Draazen- I say go for it. If you don't, you'll never know what your dad was like, or what it feels like to have one. If he turns out to be a real jerk, at least you'll be grateful he wasn't part of your childhood. Again, what you don't want is to not know what would have happened. Just give him a chance.
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Draazen (2014-04-11 04:52:49)
^ Thank you!!!
 

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