Amatsuki (2013-09-09 01:39:44)

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I can't help but feel angry about the people who are always passive aggressive against people who are depressed, not really bullying, just being jerks. Here, i'll give an example. Say someone has been beaten up and tells one of their freinds... Why do people butt into people's business and say "You just want attention, shut up and deal with it."... That won't fix anything! That's not what anyone wants to hear when they're having issues. It's ignorant and rude. Why do people do this? I really have no clue. It makes people feel like no one cares about them, you make them think too much, or so much, that they do something dumb. You're making them consider they're place in the world. That's just demonic and wrong. It happens so much, and it's so effective. That it's just not fair. You can just straight up mess with they're veiw on things... Anyone else have this problem?

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OtherSilhouette (2013-09-09 03:51:20)

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Because in truth there is alot of attention seekers. Some people are so sick of it that they see every depression as fake.
But, most people are just complete douchebags that don't understand the gravity of someone else's situation.

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ConnorRonnoc (2013-09-09 05:43:09)

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I used to have depression. Hard to believe now but yeah, it's true.

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Lani (2013-09-09 11:14:45)

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As mentioned before, most people DO make things up. I've seen so many fakers seeking attention, I've come to believe anyone with a dramatic story is faking. I'm not talking about the: "I just feel like everyone hates me..." or the simple "I'm having a horrible day T.T" THAT'S realistic. Most 'depressed' people I see on here say "Both of my parents died, my brother beats me and I have breast cancer im 9 years old" B.S. I'm not denying that some people have really hard lives but most people, on a site like this, at such a young age, don't. Nor am I denying that these people who make things up aren't really upset...I have noticed that they'll stretch the truth, some further than others, just for extra sympathy. Partially I can't blame them. You tell someone your day is horrible and they just say "That's too bad." But it's no excuse to lie.

It's hard to find that balance. It's hard to see the fakers and the ones truely upset. I hate seeing people (who believe fakers) being used. It's a lot of emotional stress to take on someone's burden...What a waste if the burden was completely made up? When I was young, I used to take EVERYONE'S problem as my own. I believed everything anyone told me. It was rather...unhealthy...I look back at the fakers who used me, but I also can't forget the people I truely helped.

It's hard to see truth. It's hard to see someone taking on a false burden. And it's also hard...to be wrong. Whether you're wrong about someone faking when they're not, or being truthful when they're lying. Complaining about it really isn't going to fix anything, though, unfortuneately.

Be as wise as a serpent, and as gentle as a dove.

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CodyP2000 (2013-09-09 11:41:00)

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At least a couple people know exactly what's going on with this generation. :fp:

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Song_Of_Storms (2013-09-09 14:33:41)

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There's much truth to your words. I know from personal experience... - Lani

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2013-09-09 14:34:12

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Nin10dude789 (2013-09-09 16:01:25)

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Kids. /

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THaT1GuY9001 (2013-09-09 21:43:07)

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Personal thread. Locked!

Just kidding. But seriously. The last place to go for this kind of stuff is the internet. I find it a bit strange how people like this go and tell people that here. I mean come on, you know whats gonna happen, so why do you do it? Just my opinion.

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