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Lani (2013-11-05 01:09:52)Anything can seem negative if you think of it that way. If you tell yourself "Things wont get any better." then things WONT get any better, because you have no desire to make it better. Life isn't a sunny walk in the park. When it's raining, bring an umbrella. When it's cold, wear a coat. Everyone isn't going to wrap you up in blankets when you need/want them to. I don't mean to sound harsh, but it's the cold truth that we ALL need to face. This society is cold and selfish. People only think about themselves and care nothing about others. Expect people to treat you poorly, because most will. You need to stand up for yourself, and when someone comes along who cares, appreciate them.
I'm not defending people who treat you poorly, but we all face the cold truth of life, too. Yet I don't complain....And I'm not saying "Complain somewhere else. These are fun forums. CLOSE REQUEST." because I know how you feel...We've all been there, and we're all GOING to be there. Sadness comes and goes. I care enough to tell you this to begin with....
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Amatsuki (2013-11-05 01:26:04)I know nothings a walk in the park. But human beings have varying personalitys, and some of us just don't have the viable strength to survive it.
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Perfect_Chaos (2013-11-05 01:28:15)Everyone has the strength, the only ones that don't, are the ones that deny it.
Lani (2013-11-05 01:30:07)None of us are born with strength...We have to find it. It wont come instantly, and it might not be easy either, but it's worth it to live a decently happy life, is it not?
Amatsuki (2013-11-05 01:30:48)I'd like to see someone find strength under the worlds foot.
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Perfect_Chaos (2013-11-05 01:38:16)Plus, if you live a life of only looking at the negatives life will obviously be crap for you because you're looking down on yourself.
Amatsuki (2013-11-05 01:39:03)I got a therapist. They don't help. Believe me. They ask generic questions and talk just like you are right now.
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Amatsuki (2013-11-05 01:41:23)I actually went through 3 therapists and they all said they couldn't help me.
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Amatsuki (2013-11-05 01:41:47)This 4th one is with this research program im in.
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Amatsuki (2013-11-05 01:43:26)And what's this of looking down on myself? There is no positive. All I got to think is "it could be worse" and it does get worse.
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Amatsuki (2013-11-05 01:45:48)It's just not worth talking to people about. You just get the same answers, and none of them help...
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Perfect_Chaos (2013-11-05 01:48:35)It's this thing called hope. Try to make it better, don't let them walk over you, make some friends. If we are all trash then you're the only throwing yourself out, not Earth.
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[AGE WARNING: THE FOLLOWING CONTAINS CONTENT SOME READERS MAY NOT FULLY UNDERSTAND, KEEP YOUR STUPIDITY TO YOUR EMPTY HEAD.]Let me just say a little something from personal expereince. Being depressed is the worst thing you can ever feel in your life. From what I have gone through, people have told me "Get over it wuss" (by the way, people who say that just want to make it worse, and it does, to the point i'll kill them, then myself) "Things get better" (Wich they never do.) or "You where born for a reason, don't be selfish" If I was born for a reason, im sure by now my reason is made, to be everyones beat-bag. To live unfairly. I know what people say "look at kids in africa, and you're depressed? You selfish-" and so on. But listen. No matter where you are, or what happened to make you feel that way, it's the same feeling for everyone. So if a kid from africa, and me, where both told our parents died, he would feel worse than me? No. Depression is a chemical effect. So quite. Here's how much is against most people. They have no freinds, have you seen modern society these days? Anyone that doesn't listen or wear trendy clothes is pushed aside as an outcast. Let's see. For me. I got no real freinds to turn to. My parents hate me, I have to deal with the legal system, im criticised for every bad thing I do, im made fun of, hit, beaten, and tormented. I can't do anything about it because I just can't. It's my nature. If I hit soneone, i'll just end up in jail. If I call the police, they said they will just counter it. I'm pulled around by judgmental courts, I'm being forced to take medication I never heard of, and I lost contact with the one person who makes me want to carry on with my life. Many people these days have to deal with the same things I do... and you think you can just tell us everything will be fine? No. I'm one person, on planet earth. No one cares what I say, because I represent me, not them. That's how the world works. I'm just trash, or garbage to everyone. That's how it is. And it's never going to change. And no, you can't deal with it. You just sit there, till you die.
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